Saturday, September 27, 2008

Chef Mario Batali & Gwyneth Paltrow Team Up For "Spain-On the Road Again."

Italian-American chef, Mario Batali, celebrity actress-Gwyneth Paltrow, and two other cast members set off on a major road trip through Spain. On their journey they find the local foods, visit farms, wineries, and cook all sorts of Spanish ethnic local agriculture.



This show will be airing this Sunday on PBS. Check your local listings. I will say, I caught a glimpse of the show and its absolutely wonderful. If you like culture, food, travel and some celebrity..then this is the show for you. Mario Batali is just awesome, he's real and you can just tell he genuinely loves what he does. A true chef. Not to mention, its great to see Gwyneth Paltrow in a realistic light, she looks like she's having fun and I think she can cook. Anyhow, I enjoyed it, you might too. Here is the link to the "Spain-On the Road Again," show.


http://www.spainontheroadagain.com/index.shtml

National Italian American Foundation Fall Events and Gala Dinners.




In keeping with updating my Italian American friends on all events Italian American, I wanted to pass along the current events listed for the National Italian American Foundation. This October in Washington D.C., will be the annual convention and gala weekend.

The convention weekend consists of tons of vendors and organizations getting together to bring the latest and most up to date networking of Italian and American products, events, and information . This includes luncheons, cocktail hours, dinners and taste testings. Love that!

The weekend is then topped off with the best gala dinner with major Italian American celebrities, politicians, entrepreneurs and other fellow Italian Americans. The NIAF also hosts a Youth Gala for the younger crowds and members, which is like the main gala but goes longer and is full of more energetic people. No offense.

Just to give you an idea of the type of crowd this event draws in, here is a list of some celebs and politicians from last year's event:

Rudy Giuliani, Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi, Ellen Pompeo of ABC’s “Grey’s Anatomy,” Connie Stevens, Academy Award-winning director Martin Scorsese, Yogi Berra, Dion, General Peter Pace, Supreme Court Justices Antonin Scalia and Samuel Alito Jr., Susan Lucci, Tony LoBianco, Dick Vermeil, Vince Papale, Jerry Vale and Maria Bartiromo.

This year's gala is going to be just as great and maybe even better. For more information on this event and how to become a member of the NIAF, go to:


The Feast of San Gennaro in Los Angeles; Sept. 26-28, 2008


The Fall is always a great time of year, especially for Italian Americans. Here on the East coast we have the St. Gennaro's feast in Little Italy, NY. For the West Coast Italians, there is the San Gennaro's feast in Los Angeles.
A good friend of mine is on the board of directors for the LA feast, their organization on the West coast is backed by celebrities such as Jimmy Kimmel, Adam Corolla, and tons more. There is no city like NY, but I have to tell you the San Gennaro's feast in Little Italy is not what it used to be, there is so much crowding on the streets that it becomes more of a pain than a good time to attend. On the other hand, the LA feast is carefully orchestrated with schedules, parking, and sponsored events. If you're in LA, go check it out..this weekend is where its at.

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Friday, September 26, 2008

Who Is The Italian American Going To Vote For: McCain Or Obama?


Did you watch the debates tonight? I think the debates went really well, I wouldn't say there was a defining moment at all. There was no clear moment of saying, "Damn...so and so really did great." There is no denying that McCain has tons of experience in military, defense, foreign policy--but the bigger issue tonight was the financial meltdown happening before our very eyes. I mean, in listening to both candidates it really makes you see there is so much that the average citizen has no clue about when it comes to either domestic or foreign issues.

Obama set the stage for a common thread he kept bringing back to the debate, which was the domestic issues. He reiterated time and time again about health care, jobs, taxes and renewable energy. McCain, on the other hand really showed off on his foreign policy knowledge. I will say both candidates did do a fantastic job with presenting a lot of the issues, but its moments like that you want to say, "can't we have both people running the country?"

Its a tough call on this election and these are not so common times. Who is the Italian American going to vote? Again, we have to remember our roots and think -which candidate will reflect our values, needs and dreams. Italian Americans are citizens of the United States because our ancestors believed in a greater way of life and a country that could provide it. Who are you going to vote for?

Can Stress Silently Kill You?

Well, according to a recent documentary and long time study and research done by Dr. Robert Sapolsky from Stanford University, he finds that stress can negatively affect you. His studies include focusing on the behaviors of animals in the wild, which include baboons.

Now, in adding to this post, I will say once again repeat, I'm not a scientist nor do I claim to be one. Anyhow, I'm a big follower of health, personal development type programming or information. So, the other night I happened to grab a glimpse of a great documentary from a National Geographic Special about Stress based on this incredible research from Dr. Sapolsky.

Now, you ask what does this have to do with the Italian-American angle, well I've blogged before on how Americans need to take a few lessons on living stress free from our native Italian ancestors. The rate of happiness, stress-less, and great health is way higher in countries like Italy, because its all about well being, stress-free, and super positive personal development. Yes, Yes, I know its hard to strive to be stress free..I understand-I live here too. But its the effort and even the mere thought that can help you achieve a better lifestyle. Just check out some of his finding and comments on this clip below. You'll be fascinated.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TtjU0-dOTLM

Thursday, September 25, 2008

Applying For Dual Citizenship, The Process.

So, enough complaining on the last few blog posts and now I'm back to business. Yesterday, I started my process for dual citizenship. As an Italian American you may be entitled to become a dual citizenship of Italy if you qualify by rules set forth by the consulate of Italy. I will post a link with information on the bottom of this blog.

Many people want to know what are the benefits of applying for dual citizenship, reasons, and does it effect your American citizenship..? Again, there are tons of benefits and some reasons for me that are just personal. But, the United States is one of the great countries where you can apply for dual citizenship in a country like Italy and not have it effect your American citizenship.

I won't post tons of information on this today because I have yet to learn the process myself. I will tell you the process starts with you just reading up on the requirements, if you qualify, what documents are needed and how to obtain them. The document part is definitely detailed, so this isn't something you can do in a day or even a month. Stick to my blog and check back with me every so often as I keep you posted on the process for applying for dual citizenship. I will attach links for you to read on the process, wish me luck too!! Also, if any one has gone through the process and have any tips let me know!!!

http://www.consnewark.esteri.it/Consolato_Newark/Menu/I_Servizi/Per_i_cittadini/Cittadinanza/

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

MTV's - 'The Hills' Star, Lauren Conrad Compares Italy to A Construction Site.

Ok, so am I the only person of Italian-American descent who picked up on LC's stupid comment about Italian men when asked how her trip to Italy was? She says to Audrina and Lo, that being in Italy was like being on a construction site. Basically the men do nothing but holler, taunt, and whistle at you like you are on a construction site.

Ok, first of all the fact that Italian men do have a tendency to be vocal when a woman walks by might be true, but to compare it to a construction site or say Italy is like being on a construction site is just stupid. You know how many people you are going to offend by this comment?

I will tell you, I worked in NYC and walked by many non-construction sites and have had men do the same thing and GEE I didn't compare it to a construction site. Actually I've been in Italy and NYC where that has happened, never did I compare it to a construction site. I just thought its guys being guys (doesnt matter if its NYC or ROME).

To be honest with you in NYC, there are tons of construction sites that I walk by and rarely are the guys fitting the stereotype of whistling and hooting. Sounds to me like LC has watched too many episodes of Sex and City where Miranda confronts the construction guy about his daily comments. Again, the typical stereotype.

Actually if I was a construction worker I would be offended. Let's remember its television, not real. Again the separation from fact to fiction is present. But then again, "The Hills" is supposed to be reality but when in actuality its totally scripted. Coming from my opinion and being in the industry..this is my guess. Yes, scripted and super edited. Hmm..which leads me to my next question, "did someone-- perhaps a producer write that line for her....?" Anything is possible.

LC should stay in California and not paint distorted pictures of Italy on the airwaves. Yes, I am a fan of "The Hills," but that just pissed me off. Too much money, a sheltered life, no tolerance for the world..see what happens..your views become narrow.

Who Knew Rocco DiSpirito Could Shake His Bon-Bon So Well Last Night on Dancing With The Stars.???


So, many of my close friends know not to bother me on nights when Dancing with Stars is on. This is my all time favorite show. I don't know if its because its celebrities and dancing or just the dancing. I love ballroom, its just so amazing. Anyway, so new season and a new cast, which includes celebrity chef, and fellow Italian-American, Rocco DiSpirito.

Ok, so if any of you watch television you know Rocco has a few of his own shows now and in the past on Food Network, A&E and a few celebrity judge episodes on Top Chef. My favorite was when he had the reality show, "The Restaurant," which also featured his mother, who was also on the show last night seated in the audience. The previous night on DWS, he bombed big time and the judges thought he wasn't going to improve.

So, last night here comes Rocco with his ever so gorgeous and talented dance partner, Karina S. They do a cha-cha or mambo..I forget which either way..its Latin, hot, fast and Rocco DiSpirito really shook his assets. I have to say, I was impressed with his takeover on the dance and his booty abilities of shaking it. I mean cutting vegetables and shaking your ass are really similar..right? LOL. Well, just in case you didn't know our fellow Italian-American was on the show, now you know. Watch Rocco shake it to the finale or not...on ABC-Mondays.

Watch the clip here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ICZy5rdaON8

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Is there a Miracle Ingredient That Can Prevent Skin Cancer?

Do you ever wonder why Italian women have such amazing skin and tone. Their faces are like porcelain. The skin regiment in most European countries is a number one task for many women. In Europe there is a huge amount of availability on skin care products that protect against harmful uva/uvb rays, which aren't available in the USA. Yes, that's right, not available in the USA...maybe available but hidden away in some pharmacy or exclusive doctor's office.

Why don't you know about it? Why do you have to get an inside scoop on where to find this miracle sunscreen creme and why can't you just buy it at the Rite Aid...?? Well, the number one ingredient that isn't allowed or hasn't been approved by the FDA yet, is called, "Mexoryl." This "m" ingredient is the key ingredient that could save you from the worst possible case scenario of skin cancer. I have a really great link to an article that talks about where you find these creams and who manufactures them. Again, these are the little things that the Europeans are ahead on, while as Americans our safety and well being are being held up by government red tape.

Visit this site for more details, (you'll be amazed) :
http://www.healthcentral.com/skin-cancer/c/115/11502/mexoryl-buzz

OK- PS Added 9/24/08- I was informed from a reader who works in the cosmetics industry that the Brand Anthelios has been approved by the FDA and now available for purchase. Thanks guys for your comments and added info!

Salvatore Ferragamo Family Purchases Exclusive Villa Estate in Tuscany. Agritourism Never Looked So Good.

When you hear Salvatore Ferragamo you think "Shoes," gorgeous shoes. Well, Ferragamo through the years has evolved into an international fashion powerhouse since the times of Salvatore Ferragamo's small shoe business. I love fashion and I love travel. I mean, I'm Italian==of course I love these two things.

I was actually watching one of my favorite shows on NYCTV 22 and caught an episode of Video Fashion-behind the label, with Judith Licht. She did an expose on the Salvatore Ferragamo label and interviewed the entire Ferragamo family. She began with interviews on the traditional business but then what I discovered about the Ferragamo family is that they own different travel, hotel and villa estate businesses in Tuscany, Italy.

Judith Licht broadcasted her interview from the very exclusive Tuscany estate owned by the Ferragamo's called, "IL BORRO." Just breath-taking. An estate with views that you can only dream of, rustic, but yet high-end. They feature and offer everything on this estate. Agri-tourism, wine-making, wedding catering, and high end stays. This is the stuff you can dream of and actually visit. Now, if you have the cash flow to finance a trip to this locale, then great. But if you don't, I strongly suggest just checking it out online. It opens your eyes to the magnificent destinations in the world, especially Italy.

To visit the Il Borro Site--Go to: http://www.ilborro.com/agriturismo/ilborro-index.aspx?lang=ENG&idArea=288

Monday, September 22, 2008

Like There is the Vatican, There is Alitalia. How Can and Will Italy Ground All Alitalia Flights Forever???


For as long as I've been alive and going to Italy since I'm an infant, I've always flown Alitalia. Alitalia is more than just an airline, its an irreplaceable memory of something that is dear to me, that reminds me of my other home. A familiar memory that brings me joy knowing its taking me somewhere that doesn't let me forget where I came from, and who I am. Pretty deep?....For an airline right? No, I'm not writing the commercial to save Alitalia, but I'm devastated at the mere thought that Alitalia could be grounded forever in the weeks to come.

I remember being so young and landing in Rome with my family. We would always have to take a connecting flight to Reggio Calabria and it was always the Alitalia plane, same plane, time, I could swear pilot too. Even till this day when we're approaching Reggio Calabria and I see the coast line and sparkling green, turquoise water...I get very emotional and cry. That plane ride for me and on that Alitalia flight is just something I can't explain.
I don't think there was ever an ugly flight attendant on any of the flights over the years. You always knew you were on Alitalia because your captain and flight attendants were just emanating that Italian charm and essence. I'm totally upset over this and can't believe that no one can save this airline. Flying within Italy, will not be the same. It sounds strange but I just don't trust another airline to get me to Reggio Calabria. This is the flight out of Rome, I've been taking for the last 30 years. I don't know who I can trust to give me the same good memories for the next 30 years to come. I'm going to go cry now.
For the latest on this crisis, go to:

Why Italian Americans Need to Take Lessons From Native Italians On How to Enjoy Life.

Work, Work, Work..it seems the American work ethic is breaking us down. Get up early, walk the dog, get the kids ready for school, take out the garbage, get lunches ready, be dressed for work, yada, yada yada. In today's times of the American lifestyle, we are being pushed to our breaking point. No time to take lunch, so you eat at your desk while still working on your computer. You don't take a break to digest your lunch so you end up with heartburn till you leave at 6 or 7 pm. Then you get in the car or mass trans. and commute your ass home for another 1/2 to hour or maybe even more if you live in the Tri-state area.

I mean really, when is there time to take care of you and have a peace of mind or tranquil, stress free days...hmmm? Never. Then when you do have a day off its on the weekend and then everything is jam packed into two days..and poof you are now officially run down. Do you know why the health care system and industry are thriving..??? Its because the American population is probably the sickest and most depressed due to work and lifestyle ethics.

We are the most worked with little vacations and no time for family leave, maternity (getting paid is another issue). I mean, really if a woman wants to have a baby she has to worry about if her maternity leave is covered or how well her health insurance will cover it, (if she has health insurance) needless to say things are tough.

Americans are by far the strongest willed, most diligent working force in the world. (in my opinion). We have formed our lives to coincide with the work schedule. Without work we suffer, no work, no money, no freedom to do and buy what you want. So, we have to make some compromises and take what our ancestors have done in the past and still do and implement into our daily lives.

The Italian culture is notorious for living the good life, 'la dolce vita.' This term is used often and its annoying, but by this you should really take the culture and its assets and use them to improve your life here in America. Italians take their time when it comes to eating, they only choose the best of foods when shopping. I noticed here in America, we are very easy to satisfy on quality control and really don't expect much on the quality end of food. We should be as picky as the Italians and demand the best of food and quality for ourselves. Also, the food quality is to blame for much sickness. Eating healthy, good food can make a huge difference in how you feel.

Take the break after lunch, go outside, walk around, inhale the air. Savor the moments. I think every time I am in Italy, I learn something new about taking care of myself. This last time in Calabria really opened my eyes to wanting more for myself in the sense of personal development. Its really hard to explain what those tangible things are..but if you've ever been in Italy you know exactly what I am talking about. The Italians have a great daily schedule with long breaks in between, but if you ask an Italian they would probably find something wrong with their lives and schedules too. I guess we have to pick our fights carefully.

We are lucky to be Italian and Italian Americans, life is short, take the time to grow your personal development, read up on culinary, wine, travel, lifestyle literature or whatever else interests you. Find out what the Italians are up to and how they enjoy their lives, model your own life as they do. When in Rome, do as the Romans do, but in this case just do as the Romans do (period.) We can all learn a little from each other.

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Sunday Church.

My mind is everywhere today, I thought about religion today because this woman I know was talking about going to church every Sunday and how she won't miss it because she feels like she's a better person because of it. I can tell you from first hand experience, this woman is not a good person based on her malicious actions in the past. I won't judge her and will respectfully listen to her side of reasoning.

Again, I'm not a priest or nun...nor do I claim to be one. I attend church when I can but I will admit I'm not there every week or donating every two seconds. My father worked for the Archdiocese for most of his life here in America. So, if anyone knows the church and what its about ..its me. My personal opinion and feelings of the Catholic Church are mixed. Yes, there is corruption, scandal and badness, but what is created through the 'holy-rollers' is what creates the negative Catholic stereotype.

I posed the question in an earlier blog about "how do we expect to keep the interest and culture of the young Italians if we are constantly surrounded by negative Italian stereotypes..? Well, I think the same goes for the Catholic image. Italians are a large Catholic faith based culture and attaching a second negative stereotype to our belief system is also a strike against us. Look, I'm not saying the bad doesn't exist in the church, but what I am saying is that we as the "followers" or "parishioners" need to evaluate what it really means to be Catholic. Its not about the money basket, donations, and scandals. Its about educating the youth in a modern way about living a greater life without reasonable sins and resisting all evil. We live in modern times, we can't expect our youth to live like nuns and priests but what we can do is teach faith and give them the outline on how to strive to be better people. Education is key.

I'm going to jump around a bit on my thoughts.... I am Catholic and strongly believe in faith, hope, spirit, Jesus, God, a stronger force than myself. I am by no means a holy-roller. Sometimes its so hard for me to believe the masses that actually go to church, I'm not accusing anyone of anything negative and maybe its a good thing they go to church because maybe they could be worse as people, but my mind is made up-- the holy-rollers are a dangerous bunch. They force their children to go to church and all the while their kids are bad, sinners or whatever else..will kick anyone down while down. These are the people who think that attendance means you're a good Catholic.

You might know these people, they could live next door to you or even be related to you. My idea of being a good Catholic is being good to everyone, never malicious, accepting of someone or their ideals or religion, and being faithful to your own religion. The holy-rollers disguise themselves in the attendance records of being at church, but yet we all know the dirty secret of these phony 'Catholics.' They want to be good Catholics, but I guess will never be because their selfishness, maliciousness, envy, and ill will over power their disguise of the good Catholic. You know I feel this great need today to talk about maintaining our faith and belief system without expecting unreasonable expectations, educating your children with good morals and not just letting them think that if you go to church you're a good person. Work on being good, good can only grow. The Catholic church needs a makeover, and a PR campaign.

Saturday, September 20, 2008

How many times can I watch 'Under the Tuscan Sun..???'


I ask this question because it seems I've watched this movie a ton of times. Its actually an interesting story about this movie and my relation to it. When this movie first came out I never saw it..but had all my friends tell me ..'you have to see this movie--it reminds me of you and how you always tell me stories about Italy and how charming Italian men are.' I was like, 'OK' it can't be that good, its kind of how do you say more "Merr-i-gan" than Italian, so it seemed like it would turn me off. Being that they wouldn't portray the facts straight. So, I didn't watch it and almost refused to watch it. Then, while I was dating this guy from NY, he did nothing but tell me and ask me 'have you ever seen 'Under the Tuscan Sun?' I had told him probably a hundred times, 'no, I haven't seen it.'
As our relationship progressed and we spent more time together, I went to his apartment for dinner and a movie. Well, wouldn't you know it, the movie was 'Under the Tuscan Sun.' People automatically think, because you're Italian you will love this movie or anything having to do with Italy you will love. Right? Wrong. Needless to say, this relationship was already on rocky roads and the assumption of his stereotyping was getting on my nerves. He was Italian I think, like 10th generation, removed, and stuffed in the closet, but swore his mother knew Italian things. Whatever, this was the first bad sign.

So, moving on--we watched the movie that night, but I think because he got on my nerves, the movie got on my nerves and I never gave it a chance. As time progressed, that relationship ended, and partly because he didn't get it, the part of me that was Italian and not some friggen stereotype. This guy was well off and thought he should date and Italian girl, who would be the stereotype of something he dreamed up. Fool. Anyway, enough of that, this poor movie never got my approval because of some jackass I dated in Midtown.
I now love this movie, I think it might be subconscious but never the less, I gave it a chance, unlike 'he' who doomed himself. Last night, in honor of his memory, I watched the movie and enjoyed it. No bad associations will impede on my movie critiquing skills. Funny story, thought I'd share. I guess for me it matters about being Italian or at least understanding something about it.

Economic Crisis, No Jobs, Panic, Is This the Modern Day Depression?

Well, according to my father, who left his war torn, economic hardship hit homeland, yes-this a depression. You know I always start these blogs off with statements such as -I am not an economist, nor do I claim to be one. So, today's blog will focus on the number one hot topic and issue sickening our nation this week and most likely for months to come. We are faced with a large scale economic crisis that could unfold even worse in the days to come.

Never in my wildest dreams, did I ever think this would be an issue or something we would have to worry about in our modern life. We learned about the Great Depression in our history books, but now we are really living it a modern tone. I pray things don't spiral even further out of control but again my generation is faced with yet another negative factor to our future. Can I retire when its time? Will there be money to fall on from my savings? Will I be able to make enough money to buy a house and maintain the mortgage payments? Is my college degree going to get me a secure job? How will I be able to pay everything?Is there any security on any level for the future? These are the scary questions facing our grim economic future today.

You know in a previous article, I mentioned how my father came to the United States to escape poverty and economic hardship but now seeing how things are unfolding in America, he's begun to show a bit of anger, because he can't believe that the government would let the country take such a negative turn, when its the greatest, most sought after prosperous economy and government in the world. Coming from the perspective of a man who left all that behind in his early 30s has now been forced to face it yet again with his children in their 30s.

It doesnt help we are saturated with the media brainwash- morning,noon and night. What is real and what isn't? Who's reporting the real deal and whos just filling segment times with panic strickened headlines. Look, I'm a member of the media and know it takes one person's decision to fill your tv screen with garbage, so I am super critical of all these news shows and their over-information reporting. As a viewer, you need to be critical too of what your watching, don't get played by the media. Stick to simple, easy to understand and credible news reporting. Never go for the hooplah because it can cause panic.

Its easy to get panicked because there is a lot at stake and the situation is undeniably bad. I'm happy the govt stepped in today with their emergency plans but its just a realistic reminder of history repeating itself during the Great Depression. Lets pray that our country gets back on its feet and we can begin to feel assured that our financial futures are stable and durable again.

To learn more about the history of the Great Depression and actions of the government then read about it here or just Google Search it: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_Depression

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Inheritance Laws and What it Means for You as An Italian American.

Look, lets start this off by saying I'm not a lawyer, nor do I claim to be one with Italian inheritance laws in my back pocket. But what many Italian Americans don't realize is that if indeed their direct family members whether they be parents, aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents left Italy to come to America, more than likely there is property in their native home towns that once belonged to them and could possibly be yours too or part of yours. This is unless too much time has passed and another Italian immediate family member just assumed ownership. Again, this must be verified.

For many Italian Americans this idea is completely foreign to them because like many Italians who came here they left everything behind and signed it off to distant relatives. I have a friend of mine whose father came to America in the 50s like my father and had a lot of land in Italy. He owned the land with his siblings who stayed in Italy. The father never renounced his part when he came to America but never disclosed to his American kids about the property.

When her father passed away she and her sisters had no idea there was a large chunk of land that was partly theirs. They were approached by the Italian side for a buyout and they obliged. Now, unfortunately Italians (who might even be your family- well this could be anyone really)are known for being shrewd and trying to out scam the next guy, so if you don't stay on top of knowing these things about your family, then you might be out of luck and land.

This is a very complicated process because Italian laws are not always clear. So, if you're interested in knowing anything about this..I would start with basic questions to the closest living relatives who would know if you are or could be still in the rightful possession of inheritance property in Italy. You can start by reading up on this here:

http://www.globalpropertyguide.com/Europe/Italy/Inheritance

Lasagna and Real Sauce, It Just Doesn't Get Any Better.....


I am very lucky. Most Americans are so busy with their schedules that making dinner is really the last thing we worry about at night. We settle for frozen dinners, salads, take-out and or any other readily available garbage sold in our food stores. Well, tonight as I arrived to my parents house, I was greeted at the door with an unbelievable smell of sauce, lasagna and my favorite meatballs. Now, the great thing about being Italian is that it doesn't matter what day of the week it is, there is never a reason for cooking great--its a requirement!!


Part of my healthy regiment is due mainly to my upbringing. I work out and lets face it with Italian DNA, its hard to keep weight off...so I have to work extra hard to stay at a healthy weight. Our menu in my household growing up was always more of a vegetarian one, southern Italians are not big meat eaters. We rarely do anything beefy or broiled. We eat lots of versions of salads, rice, beans, pasta, fish and fruit. Aside from that I ban any kind of beef and my mom to accomodate me (cause that's what Italian mothers do) she specially makes me turkey (lean breast) meatballs. Let me tell you...so good. So, I wanted to brag a little about my gourmet tonight and share just a few pics of the preparation of making lasagna and the sauce. My mom is the rockstar of cooking!!! Love her.

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

I would rather focus on the real talents of the cast members of the Sopranos such as, Federico Castelluccio.

Well, after my blog the other day on my feelings about negative stereotypes in the media regarding Italian Americans, I wanted to focus on one particular actor on the Sopranos, who really is a true artist at heart. If we focused one hour or a half hour show with Federico Castelluccio and his artistic abilities, that would be a lot better than just boxing him in the "Italian-American" negative gangster persona. On the Sopranos he plays "Furio."

When I found out he was an artist and saw some of his work, I was literally shocked. You know how I said my generation only believes what they see in the media, so if I only saw him in the Sopranos then I would only think he's a boxed up stereotype working on a show that stereotypes his ethnicity. But, leaving that behind, Federico Castelluccio is really a modern day renaissance man. His works of art are really interesting because they reveal a lost artistic quality you don't see in today's artists. His art is something out of the Renaissance age, literally. Its people like this who really have true talents that we should focus on, and talk about. Now I know that Federico Castelluccio is more than just an actor playing a 'gangster' on television.

If you visit his website you can see more of his gallery and works, http://www.federicocastelluccio.com/

Lunch Time-Italian American Style.

I don't know why but lately I'm having all these past moments about growing up and this one in particular because I actually had this for lunch today. So, I mentioned before I'm a little bit of a health nut, but I don't know if its being a health nut or just eating right. I credit my upringing for eating healthy in my adult life to my Italian heritage.

Anyway, so I had marinated eggplant in my salad today. I prepared a salad with some eggplant that my mother had brought back from Italy. She and my aunt actually made it and bottled it themselves. Now, I will have to say this is by far one of my favorite foods ever from Italy. Its so good just as is. YUM! Anyway, growing up as a kid, for lunch my mother would make me marinated eggplant sandwiches. So at lunch time when I would sit at the lunch table at school--kids would always look at what each other had for lunch. I remember one kid looked at my eggplant sandwich and said, "ewwww...what are you eating...??? They look like worms..!!" I remember being completed humilated and not knowing how to answer back...because what was I going to do explain to him that these were marinated eggplants cut finely and put in unbelievable fresh pressed olive oil. I mean I'm like 7 years old with this knowledge of gourmet food while my friends are eating peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. I always felt like a little bit of an outcast when it came to stuff like that...but now I look back and think its totally hysterical. A flashback Italian-American version of Seinfeld. Just hysterical.

Monday, September 15, 2008

A Christening Brings Me Deep In Thought.

Just a small blog about a relevant 'Italian-American' issue. There's been a lot going on lately and my schedule has been a bit hectic. This past weekend was my nephew's Christening, which was nice but also very draining. Draining in the sense of entertaining people at an event that is hosted by one of your family members, where you are more compelled to engage in conversation. The party was nice but at a certain point I realized how sad it was that our party was filled with friends my family had kept over the years and people who were married into the family via in-laws.

Being that our family is just our immediate family here in America, every real event we've ever had in the states was always filled with friends of the family, no real family. Granted, there is one "Uncle," that is related to my father as a cousin, but he was born Italian American and doesn't really have an immediate close relationship with us.

My sister and I were talking about how this is something interesting with these types of events all of our lives because we were never lucky enough to have aunts, uncles, cousins, or grandparents living here in America like us. Remember, my parents came here solo, with no other siblings or family and no one came or followed out to the states.

We were forced into the 'friends of family' thing as our family because we were growing up Italian-American without our Italian family. Its really an interesting concept, because for instance when I was 18 years old I happened to be in Italy and I had a really big party hosted by my parents. The party was like no other, tons of people, food, friends, family...I mean just a whole other level of a gathering with my family. I never experienced this here in America because we were growing up with just our immediate family. So, this weekend kind of brought back those memories and made me feel a little sad about the fact that with every momentous occasion in our lives here in America we rarely get to spend with our Italian family. It made me think, how many Italian Americans have this same situation...and are faced with this realization..???

Figs in the morning, figs at night....figs, figs, figs!!!


I will say yes, I love figs but like I was in fritelli hell..Ive now graduated seasons and have entered into fig season. The fig is like the most prized possession for my father. He grew a fig tree in his backyard, which is now not such a small tree. This fig tree is now producing tons of figs of which he meticulously nurtured one by one. By that I mean, there is a trick in getting your figs not to bust at the bottom so they can fully grow. My father takes olive oil and rubs each bottom of the fig so they dont crack. I mean this in an all morning event. The man has patience.

He loves his tree so much that like many other Italian Americans who try to keep their figs trees from dying in winter, he wraps it up like a mummy and neighbors would ask,"what does your father have wrapped up in the backyard standing straight up..?" The awkward answer, 'its a fig tree and you have to wrap up it all mummy-ish so it can survive the winter..yada yada yada. Most of the time their like...'oh that's so interesting.' But you know they're like those I-talians do such strange things.

So, now every time you walk in the door, you're offered a fig..and even on the way out. The other day, this is a true story..my father says to my brother, "wanta figa?" my brother says, "no, not right now," then my father gets pissy because he wants him to try the fig and say 'wow, that's a great fig.' There's always a reason for my father's antics. So, again, 'you wanta figa?" My brother, "papa, no, I said I don't want one right now." My father, "why?" My brother, "because"
My father, "come on-whats the big deal, just try!" My brother "OMG, you are relentless!!!, ok I'll have it." My brother eats one looks at me and says, "damn, they're good." I just look at him and laugh. My father just looks over like with a pompous grin and says "see --I tell you." Got to love it. We were laughing our asses off. My father the 'figa' guy.

Saturday, September 13, 2008

How in the world are we going to get young Italian Americans to preserve their heritage when we're surrounded by negative stereotypes in the media..??

Lately, I feel like I'm surrounded by this negative Italian American stereotyping. But, I have to say its not stereotyping by other cultural groups....it seems our own home grown Italian Americans are putting themselves in this box of negativity. By this, I mean acting like or comparing themselves to 'mobsters' or 'wise guy' type personas. Now, we have shows like the Sopranos, which was attacked because of the negative stereotyping. But mind you I think the problem with that show is the audience and not the show. Granted, ok..why isn't the show called some other ethnic last name...? The answer is simple, its about capitalizing on an negative image that many people are fascinated with which makes everyone money.

What makes this even worse is that most Italian Americans lets say from the tri-state area can't seem to separate fact from fiction. Yes, you may know someone who looks or acts like Tony Soprano, but really is that what every Italian American looks or acts like? Yes, I do know a few people who look and act like that too...but I know the difference between fact and fiction. Just because a show is shot in New Jersey and your neighbor is kinda shady, doesn't mean they're in the mob.

So, the responsibility of keeping the Italian American image upstanding does also belong to the audience-YOU. Now, many of you scholars will say its more than that and television programmers, producers and studios need to stop this type of defamation, which I agree. I will also say as a television producer that if we never produced anything about this (which is a factual part of history-organized crime) then television would not exist and no one would produce anything. Again, I reiterate we should all be responsible for our own actions and image portrayals.

I don't watch the Sopranos because to be honest with you...its a little much for me, but if I do catch a re-run..I don't feel the need to go out and get acrylic nails and act like Carmella Soprano. Its up to the rest of us as producers, writers, teachers, professors, professionals to upkeep the Italian American image. This ties into my original question, how can we keep the attention and interest in our heritage with young Italian Americans? I realize I'm lucky because I am very close in the generation gap of being Italian American and I think it must be harder for the 2nd, 3rd and 4th generations to keep the traditions, culture and social characteristics within reach.

Its all about education. If we can keep the younger generations interested in what its about then we can succeed in preserving our heritage. For every Soprano show, there should be more positive, savvy programming to counter the negative imagery. You can't have any good if there's no bad. So, if the Sopranos show exists, then it exists- but we have to educate and be more media responsible to portray all the images of being Italian American.

This leads me into general media and television programming. For example, I was watching PBS, and there was an Italian American show about promoting an Italian American music CD. The whole show including hosts from PBS was a complete disgrace. Usually, I love anything PBS including their educational and cultural productions. But, this was just not right, you have a few cast members from the Sopranos promoting a CD and their latest projects. It seems to me they put themselves in their negative Italian-American stereotype characters and literally act like that typical gangster persona to capitalize on their careers. Is this real? Are they for real? Maybe they're for real, but if we're going to show one type of Italian American, then you must show all types of Italian American. So, again..there isn't much Italian American programming on television. (PERIOD) I can only hope that we can produce Italian American programming in the near future that portrays all of us. If not, our generation, my generation-- will truly begin to believe that Italian Americans are gangsters and talk like they have meatballs in their mouth with limited vocabulary and Cadillacs in their driveway.

I'll finish this off by saying yes, there are people who are really for real and act like this because that's who they are and don't capitalize on it, then there are those who act like this and capitalize on it to create the negative stereotype. We must be fair and educate on all parts of the Italian American. I'm on a roll today, too much bullshit out there and nothing real. Let's get real. Get me interested!

Friday, September 12, 2008

I was in Fritelli hell this summer!!


If you're a true Italian, then you know 'fritelli.' So, being that my mother decided to head over to Italy for the summer to visit family and because my uncle had passed, she was there to console her sister. When my mother is not home here in the states, it means one of us is going to take the fall for keeping up with my father's demands.


My father, God bless him is 78 years old and can out run me. His days are filled with tending to his massive garden and keeping the lawn prestine. In the midst of his daily jobs, he expects everyone to pitch in, whether you live in his house or not. I would come back from work late in the day and stop over where I would find in the kitchen and refrigerator a box of zucchini flowers. This was an everyday thing. Mind you these flowers are extremely hard to find in the grocers and cost a pretty penny.

So, in order not to let them go to waste, I would devote a few hours every other day to making fritelli. Now, fritellis are the most delicious thing you will ever eat. They're simple ingredients combined and fried with the flowers. Growing up my friends would flock to my house and wait for the hot fritellis to come off the stove, they are so good and absolutely addictive.

Because I work a lot, I really don't have a lot of time to grow my cooking skills. If I have to cook its minimal and just enough for me because I am also a health nut so my food is always very particular. Anyway, I couldn't keep up with the fritelli demand this summer and the more I made the more we gave away. My brothers and sister also did their fair share of cooking and reinventing what to do with the zucchini flowers but let me tell you...this little thing we call the fritella is amazing. Here is a simple recipe on how to cook them.

1. Clean a bunch of zucchini flowers (they're are always little garden bugs in them, so be sure to thoroughly clean.)


2. Add flour, salt, pepper, a handful of chopped basil and a really diced, small garlic.


3. Add just enough water to make the entire bowl of ingredients look like pancake mix. (If you make it too watery, they come out like crap so be cheap as you add water.)


4. Then, make sure you have a pan or wok ready to be fired up and the oil has to be super hot.


5. Add scoops of fritelli mix to the pan like you're making pancakes.(same idea)


6. Fry each side till they're golden and then lighly salt.


7. Eat and be merry.


Now, for those of you who need specifics on how much to put in each thing, really there is no such thing, use your eye and periodically taste the mix to make sure its salty enough. Sorry, but this is old school Calabrese style fritelli cooking.

The Launch of the Italian American Network.

If you're looking for all things Italian American then you can now tune into the newly formed Italian American Network. An online based site that features programming from fashion to travel, and interviews--this channel is for all things Italian American.

For more information please visit:

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Dedication and Memorial For Victims and Families of 9/11


In remembrance....I would like to extend my heartfelt prayers to the families and victims of 9/11.

"O Sole Mio," Takes on a Whole New Meaning: Italy is Expected To Take Solar Power to the Next Level.


In today's turbulent times of gaining access to renewable energy resources, Italy is expected to become the number location in the world to take on the task of becoming the next solar hot spot for solar energy. Undeniably, we are under the gun to find renewable resources and if Italy can be a major contributor to developing more solar energy, I say cut the red tape and lets get it rolling.


If you tuned into the Democratic and Republic conventions, talking about renewable energy resources was the number topic for both presidential and vice presidential candidates. If you think about it, we are committed to two wars based on natural resources, some might say its not about energy or oil but let's get real...and just call it what it is.


I'm not a scientist, nor do I claim to be one, but I would almost bet that in the United States we could pursue more avenues of using or developing renewable energy. I don't see a lot of incentive to use other available natural resources. We need to start educating the American population on renewable energy and resources. While we're at it, implement education on recycling. We've lost our Green education somewhere along the way and this is why Europe is moving full speed ahead on green technology.


I'm excited to see how the solar energy project in Italy develops in the next year. Let's stay posted on this topic because it really benefits everyone.


For more information on this topic, visit: http://www.enn.com/energy/article/38068

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

Speaking an Ancient Language, there's proper Italian, then there's Dialect straight out of Reggio Calabria.

Not many people know this about me, but I do speak Italian fluently. This is definitely one of the greatest gifts I was given growing up with Italian parents. In my house, we grew up learning English, Italian and dialect.

Dialect is the specific language used from the particular area you are from in Italy. Of course, being from Reggio Calabria you just can't get any more slang and dialect than that..ok that might be a lie..because Sicilians really have a whole language of their own when it comes to dialect. I always said my parents came to America in a time capsule. They left thinking, speaking and acting the same as they do today. My mother has evolved with the times but my father, who is 78 years old, still thinks and believes certain things are the same there.

With all the transitions and change we had to learn growing up in our house, speaking Italian became secondary because the focus was on making sure we did well in school learning our English. Make no mistake, my mother was the enforcer at home and always made sure we kept our Italian alive...especially if we were in front of someone and she wanted to tell us something privately or just yell at us..it would be in a different language. Our secret code.

Other important moments to learn Italian was when we visited our relatives in Reggio Calabria. Now, I have a million cousins...and if you wanted to hang out or socialize with other kids..it was sink or swim. So, myself and my siblings learned quickly to retain the language or be faced as an outcast all summer.

As I got older, I realized our Italian dialect was not the language of choice in Italy, especially when I would visit my cousins in Rome and Venice. They spoke a whole different way..that left me thinking, "holy crap, I better learn proper Italian."

So, when I finally went to college I took Italian classes to learn the language all over again. I did it to expand what I knew of the language but also to preserve it. To know a second language is an amazing thing and I thank my mother and father everyday for giving me this part of their time capsule.

Today in Reggio Calabria, there's rarely an instance where people actually speak dialect. Only the older generations like my father and mother speak it. The younger kids have no clue how to speak it or what some words even mean. So, last time I was there I went out socially with my cousins and literally everyone was just astonished when my cousins revealed that myself and my sister spoke dialect too.

Mind you, when we're out we only speak proper Italian. I kinda felt like we were performing a little because everyone kept asking for requests on saying certain things. It was funny, but then I realized not only do we have the extreme privilege of living as Italian Americans but we also walked away with a cultural tradition that many Italians have lost. I'm a lucky person and thank God for my blessings everyday!

To see more on this topic, check out this interesting article written by the AMERICAN ASSOCIATION OF TEACHERS OF ITALIAN.

http://www.jstor.org/pss/479173

The Italian American Museum Opens In Little Italy!

For those of you who love history, this is the perfect place to go. The Italian American Museum is now open in its new building on Mulberry Street in Little Italy. The new location was once the old location of the original Banca Stabile, which was used by tons of Italian Americans in New York during 1882 to 1938. Inside you will find original structures and artifacts left by the building's previous owners. For more information on this magnificent structure and hours of visitation, please visit www.http://www.italianamericanmuseum.org/

Madonna Dedicates "Like A Virgin" to the Pope at her Sticky N Sweet Concert in Rome Over the Weekend.



One of my favorite Italian-American women of all time. I love Madonna, I mean who doesn't. She just hit a milestone with turning 50 years old this year. Damn, I can only wish I look as hot as her when I hit 50. So, she just started her the first leg of her Sticky N' Sweet tour and opened up with a major ground-breaking concert in Rome. Now, Madonna even though she was raised in an Italian Catholic home has been known to challenge the 'church.' Over the years, Madonna was banned several times from performing in Rome due to her over the top artistic performances.

I remember watching the "Truth or Dare" documentary where Madonna is giving a press conference in Rome trying to explain her case to the Italian people after her show was banned because of risque segments. She went on to say, how she's an Italian American and basically not interested in offending the church but just trying to express herself. Now, after a more than a decade, Madonna returns to Rome, welcomed by all the Italians and including the Pope. She says, "I dedicate this song to the pope, because I'm a child of God. All of you are also children of God." So deep, love Madonna. I will be honored with seeing Madonna in concert when she hits Madison Square Garden this Fall. Can't wait!

Monday, September 8, 2008

Democrats or Republicans...Who is the Italian American going to vote for?

Ok, so first and foremost, I will start this blog by saying I am American first. I have to say I was literally exhausted watching the Democratic and Republican conventions last week and the week before. Without showing my party hat..I have to say both conventions were pretty interesting. Starting out with the DNC, it was an inspirational moment of the American people projecting a great America. So, many of my close friends or colleagues are obviously not so inspired by the Dems and felt that the DNC was a big rock concert with celebrities. Yes, I guess some of it was, but the truth is it was about getting real and making a clear plan for the middle class and those who don't have voices.

The Dems tried to convey the message about taking back the White House and making America great again. For me, the Dems are definitely on a good track, I grew up in a middle-class home, my father and mother immigrants. We are the "American Dream."
On the other hand, I can also see the Repubs point of view but its a harder one to swallow. Our fellow Italian-American Rudy Giuliani was out in full force for his speech on the night of the RNC. It was wild, he was wild. Make no mistake, I have great respect for RG, and loved when he was the Mayor of NYC. Remember, I worked in NYC for many years, so after 9/11, we all looked to RG for guidance and he delivered. But I think the great thing about being American is that we can agree to disagree and choose what we want. Much love to RG.

But getting back to it, I feel many born and bred Americans forget that so many people emmigrated to this great country for a better life. For the pursuit of life, liberty and happiness. Being an American is an amazing thing, you have everything because opportunity allows you to have it. Its about working hard and living a good life.

My father sometimes gets discouraged when he sees how hard it is for myself and my siblings to make it in these times. Buying a house, (not so easy), getting a good paying job (not so easy), having good health care (not so easy), getting a college degree (not so easy.) He remembers a time in America when the idea was about growing a great government that could lead the American people into prosperous times.
He brags about the time when he arrived in the USA, and remembers how getting work was possible and how employers valued a person's skills and time. He was amazed at how great his new life as an American would be. Now, let's also remember this a guy who grew up in a Mussolini-Fascist world. So, if anyone knows the value of freedom, its my father. Who is by the way, also an American citizen since day one of stepping foot on this soil.
Today, we're faced with outsourcing, and where your college degree doesn't seem so special anymore and it doesnt guarantee you a great job. Well, now we are in a historic time of change. Pardon my French, but its time to 'shit or get off the pot.' We're down and out but I have faith in our government and the American way of life, where opportunity and prosperity are real things. Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness don't just seem like words anymore..it will be what brings us to a better tomorrow here in America.
As Italian-Americans we have to remember how we all got here. They said lets go to America because we can have a better life, its a place where opportunity, freedom and prosperity are available to all, not just the rich. Its about the common man making a greater life for his family and the generations to come. Italian-Americans are a great backbone to this country. Make our voices count and get out and vote this year!!

Sunday, September 7, 2008

Making Jars of Sauce..yes, its called sauce and not gravy!

Many of my friends are absolutely astonished when I reveal what I do on my weekends. If you look at my credentials you would say ok..a professional with a college degree, great career path, a lot of social networks..yada yada. But, the fact of the matter is my credentials are a facade to who I really am. For instance, this weekend I was wrangled into making jars of sauce. My father who is the king of planting vegetable gardens has harvested a ton of tomatoes. So, my mother, who just returned from Italy. (thank God) is now coordinating this tomato cooking, jar bottling event. What I do on a normal weekend, or I should say my part of what myself or siblings are expected to do is so not the normal of the American lifestyle. Needless to say, we bottled a ton of tomatoes for the winter. The next event will be making wine come October. As I continue to blog I will post pictures, videos and basic 'how tos.' I realize these types of traditions are not easy to find information on, so as a courtesy to my fellow-Italo-Americani..I will post as much info as possible. Ciao!

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Calabria is where the heart is.....


I wanted to share my last vacation with you to Reggio Calabria, Italy. By far one of the most magnificent regions in Italy. Its completely underrated and less traveled by the masses because of its less than modern day updates in around the cities and countryside. Now, Calabria and I go way back..while my friends were taking trips to Disney in grade school..I was visiting family in Calabria. The most unbelievable panoramic scenery you will ever imagine. Granted, Calabria has received a bad rap through the years for its abandoned upkeep on cities and natural landmarks, but make no mistake this uncharted landscape will leave you breathless and feeling like you never will be the same.

I'm very lucky because my family actively lives there. Lets say my immediate family of brothers and sisters are the only family here in America. When we visit Calabria we are bombarded by cousins, aunts, uncles, and even more cousins you never even knew you had. Its a place where showing up to someone house you're welcomed with warmth and a fresh glass of lemonade, latte di mandorla or espresso.

My days in Calabria consist of day trips to the beach, which is two minutes from my parents childhood home, lunch (which is like dinner), and dinner with friends and family. Then followed by a passegiatta a marina then off to the trendy outdoor clubs.

The social scene is amazing, I think in America we are so used to scheduled outings and driving for hours to either get into the city or other towns that we lose our social skills. In Calabria there is a real sense of everyone knowing everyone and familiarity is not such a bad thing. Granted you want to stay off the radar of the old gossiping widowed women wearing black and sitting outside their poltranas watching everyone and taking notes. You got to love them, every family has one.

Well, to help you see and understand the beauty of southern Italy, I want to post a few pictures of the Calabrian coast line with the gorgeous Sicilian coast line in the near background. Stay tuned as I get my slideshow going.

Where do I start....???


So, like many other people..I've decided to start blogging. I've always had this strong need to connect with other Italian Americans because I always felt there was much to be shared in our values and lifestyles.

Its hard growing up with parents who are really when they say "Off the boat," and your other friends and parents just don't get why you do certain things or live a certain way. I was lucky enough to grow up in a town outside of NYC, where everyone was pretty much of Italian descent.

My siblings and myself were first generation Italian-Americans. This meant that everything we did was experimental for my parents in the sense that even though they worked and tried to fit into the American way, they still stuck out like sore thumbs..because we were just unversed in the lifestyle and actions of American kids and teens.

So, yes..school was hard but it was even harder for my older siblings..I am the youngest of four. My sister, Maria who is the oldest basically went to school speaking Italian in kindergarten because my parents really didn't speak perfect English, so at home we spoke dialect. Dialect is not exactly proper Italian and we all ended speaking dialect-English. This meant some words were in dialect and others were in English. For example.. "Si mangia ...venite a mangiare...stammo mangiando pasta...go get the cheese out of the frigo." I mean a real mish-mash.

Needless to say, I wouldn't give up a second of my life growing up because as I got older I realized what we tried to always hide about our heritage and our lacking Americana was the very thing I hold onto tightly today. Its who I am...and probably a larger of who I am.

Growing up in the 70s-80s was an interesting time..but growing up with immigrant parents I think made it all the more interesting. My father was a blue-collar worker his whole life in America. He worked two and three jobs at a time sometimes. We had the basics, a modest house, simple clothes nothing extra. I mean nothing extra..including cable television. Cable television when it first came out was a big deal but my parents were like...you don't need that and besides it costs more money, of which we aren't spending. So, you can imagine some days at school people would talk about shows..did you see that? I would be like..no. They would say, why not? Cause I have no cable...? This was an utter shock to my American friends but now I look back and say you know what..it really didnt matter. I had culture, which was more than the other kids.

So, getting back to my parents..which I still think is pretty interesting. My father came to America in 1956 on Columbus Day. My father was the oldest of his siblings and was basically forced to come to America to make money because his father, my grandfather was killed in action in WWII. This led to his family fending for themselves, poor and with no money. He came here by ocean liner and travelled on that ship for almost two weeks to get to America. He like many other Italian Americans landed in New York.

As you can imagine, my father was put through a lot at a young age. So, when he came to America he came with all his energy and hope for a better life. He busted his ass working but in the end payed off.

My parents were married when my father invited my mother to come to America years later. He always knew my mother and had a romantic crush on her...so he asked her to marry him. My mom, who has balls of steel by the way, accepted his marriage proposal and jetted over to a land that she knew nothing about. She came here on a plane..no boat..but the story is similar.

My parents have been married a long time close to 40 years, it hasn't been peaches and cream thats for sure. They struggled, argued, at more than one time..hated each other..but always remained together. I know now in my adult life that they are bonded by their journey here in America. They do love each other..and understand each other only as they do. Only Italians know how passionate we can be which can include heated arguments especially from two Calabrians.

In a not so small nut shell that is the beginning of my life here in America. Stay tuned for my daily blogs on life as an Italian American girl.